Frame: Carrot vs. Stick and Active Disinterest Playing to win, instead of playing to not lose, those were some brave words. It was braver still to act on them. It’s like the tide is going out on your ego and you’re going to see how good you are. I feel pretty naked. The tide is […]
Read morePlaying to Win Versus Playing to Not Lose
Playing to Win Versus Playing to Not Lose Several dates and conversations led me to a big epiphany this week about playing to win instead of playing to not lose. Approaching to win: I realized that a lot of my approaches have gone down a cultural interview path, or a friendly chat. Any leads from […]
Read more2 years on… …is daygame worth it?
Growth and Daygame Stoicism
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The Daygame Gold Rush This post isn’t about monetizing game or products or email lists and shit like that. Daygame discussion on Twitter and the Internet is a mess. Just like any gold rush, there is a lot of commotion, activity, and excitement. Is there much gold? The reports of many men on Twitter make […]
Read moreMy Method for How to Learn Daygame
My Method for How to Learn Daygame I’m still learning, but I’ve made such progress in the past year and it would be good to share a few thoughts on how to make rapid progress. Volume is the most important thing. You must approach in volume, and as I said in my last post, an […]
Read moreApproaching 2000 Approaches
Approaching 2000 Approaches I started doing Daygame seriously in August 2017. Today, I’m at 1956 approaches. I keep an open What’sApp chat with Nash and record almost all of my approaches there. A few times a month I enter the stats in Excel. I consider it an approach if I am able to open my […]
Read moreEmotional Regulation: Rejection Modes
Emotional Regulation: Rejection Modes One of the reasons athletes are successful with women is they are trained to take action (approach) and they are resilient after failure. They are able to shake off a failure as being in the past and get ready for the next point, down, match, game, race, etc. I don’t have […]
Read moreWriting about my Daygame Experiences
Writing about my Daygame Experiences I resisted as long as I could. I have met some really cool people recently via Anonymous Twitter and it has convinced me that the benefits of blogging will outweigh the risks. I don’t care if you read it. I’m not interested in monetizing or selling anything related to daygame […]
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