January 1st, 2020. Just sent a girl home after spending a nice new years eve with her just chilling at my place. She made some food and I made some drinks and we watched a movie and had some sexy times. I sent a new year ping to many old leads from the past year […]
Read moreMistakes Nice Guys Make and How to Fix Them
I started recording audio of my sets last month. I use the Olympus VP-10, it cost $80 but was worth it. The quality is good, the battery life is long, and it is USB so it’s easy to transfer to my computer. I use quicktime to trim audio files down to my approaches. It’s a […]
Read moreMy Notes on Torero’s ‘What to do on a Date A to Z’ Video (RIP)
So Tom Torero took everything down, theory being that some uncalibrated guy in Scotland got arrested for aggressively hounding girls for their number and got 2 years jail time. WTF UK legal system. Also, why do your judges wear wigs? These types of unfortunate events are why you must let girls go quickly if they’re […]
Read moreYup. Europe is Easier.
Yup. Europe is Easier. So I did a trip to Europe. Up early due to Jet Lag. Figure I’ll write it up. Purpose of the trip for me was not actually to get +1s (though I was sure going to try) though I think I could have if I had stayed longer in each city. […]
Read moreFrame: Carrot vs. Stick and Active Disinterest
Frame: Carrot vs. Stick and Active Disinterest Playing to win, instead of playing to not lose, those were some brave words. It was braver still to act on them. It’s like the tide is going out on your ego and you’re going to see how good you are. I feel pretty naked. The tide is […]
Read morePlaying to Win Versus Playing to Not Lose
Playing to Win Versus Playing to Not Lose Several dates and conversations led me to a big epiphany this week about playing to win instead of playing to not lose. Approaching to win: I realized that a lot of my approaches have gone down a cultural interview path, or a friendly chat. Any leads from […]
Read more2 years on… …is daygame worth it?
Growth and Daygame Stoicism
Read moreThe Daygame Gold Rush
The Daygame Gold Rush This post isn’t about monetizing game or products or email lists and shit like that. Daygame discussion on Twitter and the Internet is a mess. Just like any gold rush, there is a lot of commotion, activity, and excitement. Is there much gold? The reports of many men on Twitter make […]
Read moreMy Method for How to Learn Daygame
My Method for How to Learn Daygame I’m still learning, but I’ve made such progress in the past year and it would be good to share a few thoughts on how to make rapid progress. Volume is the most important thing. You must approach in volume, and as I said in my last post, an […]
Read moreApproaching 2000 Approaches
Approaching 2000 Approaches I started doing Daygame seriously in August 2017. Today, I’m at 1956 approaches. I keep an open What’sApp chat with Nash and record almost all of my approaches there. A few times a month I enter the stats in Excel. I consider it an approach if I am able to open my […]
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